25 July 2005

So out of Character...or is It

I have a lot to say but it’s 1:40am and I have class at 8am so I’m going to be very brief…

Words can be very powerful and convincing to those that don’t think highly of themselves. Telling some one that they are attractive, sexy, not feminine enough or that they are simple can really affect ones behavior and/or character. I mean everyone likes to receive compliments, its just a matter of what you do with them. People that are confident or have a pretty decent self-esteem don’t really take what others say to heart cause they know who and what they are no matter what anyone says or thinks. However, those that aren’t as strong can some times get carried away and believe what anyone tells them or act accordingly depending on what’s said. Having such an erratic personality is not the best because you can be easily influenced by anyone such as people that actually have your best interest at heart or those that know nothing about who you are and what you’re about. I wish that I was a stronger person and confident in who I am so that I wasn’t so easily influenced by others.

As I learn more and more about myself, I’m kinda appalled by how little I know about myself and the kind of person I am.

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